Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Self Expression and the Octopus

Does the line between personal and work need to be hard edged? I ask this because I find myself not writing, not blogging for days, Not because there isn't anything to say, but because this is my work blog. But, I'm me, at work or at home. In fact even more so since my work is AT my home!

So many things go on day to day and it's as if they write about themselves in my head. My brain becomes busy creating sentences, that never get written. I'm struggling a bit with this one and if anyone has any input, I'm all ears.

The struggle seems less of a struggle however if I take this back to the root of why it started. Why I'm writing in the first place. I just need to. Want to. There are stories to be told, things to be said and I want to say them. To anyone. To space and time. To God. When I'm in this place, the just needing to express myself space, I can do just that. Write about whatever is going on in my life that I want to express. When I start to filter myself, think about this as a "work" blog, it seems ridiculous that I would write about how I made octopus hot dogs for my boys last night for dinner. Yes, octopus hot dogs.

See, here I go because I have a need. A need to share this because it's so brilliant. I wish I could take the credit. It was going to be one of those easy dinner nights. A salad filled with beats, cucumber, carrot, feta cheese for Matt and I and hot dogs, home made mac-n-cheese with peas and broccoli for the boys. I almost couldn't bear to think that I was going to just serve them plain hot dogs, again, so I went to the all knowing internet to see what I could find. The search for "creative ways to serve a hot dog" brought me to a blog posting from this site....Workitmom. The post was how to make an octopus hot dog! Brilliant. I won't even try to recount the steps because it's done so well on her post. It's so simple and I have to say, a HIT!

Mason and Miles LOVED that they could eat a hot dog in a new and exciting way. Even watching them cook was fun. And the comment by the mom who blogged this is true. Just by taking more time to prepare the hot dog made me feel like it was more nutritious!

I of course had to take a couple of pictures to share. I should have taken some shots of the boys eating because Miles proceeded to amputate the octopus by eating it's legs one by one. Mason however, went straight for the head. Left all of it's legs just wiggling there until one by one, they were gone.

One of the best things about the octopus though is that by serving it this way, you completely take away the infamous "choking hazard" danger. Hot dogs are one of the leading causes of choking with children. There is even a petition that has been filed so that a warning label would have to be placed on the packaging of hot dogs stating that they are a choking hazard. O.K. that might be going a bit far, but if you serve your hot dogs like octopi, you wont have to worry about it.

Unless of course your child decapitates it like mason did and eats the head whole. ;-)

Bon Appetit!



6 comments:

  1. I have to admit, it was a little strange to come home to!

    Miles repeating "OtDog - Otdog - Otdog"... and Mason telling me that he and his brother were about to eat Octopus Hot Dogs...!?

    Thank goodness, I didn't have an octopus hotdog in my salad!

    After all, its still a hotdog.

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  2. omg, i feel like you are in my head! my blog goes dark, for days and even weeks because i have this constant flow of ideas, constant words that i write and rewrite in my head and then i think how is that going to help my business? and then i wonder, am i revealing too much? thank you thank you thank you for making me feel like i'm not the only one. i used to blog on my myspace, before photos. personal writings and was ok with whomever saw it. it felt like i was able to express more of who i am, and that always feels good even if it isn't always pretty. but real. so when it comes to business and blogs, maybe my defiance to follow the normal formula is what prevents me from doing anything at all. kind of a vicious cycle. i DO have so much to share, i just almost wonder if i need to create a seperate blog for that! is that crazy?! i saw a website once, i forgot who, but she had it set up so amazingly, so how i want to do mine. she had a link for photographs for others, and then another link that was for her. in other words, she seperated the work she does for others, and then gave herself a space for the work she does for herself (less commercial, perhaps more controversial but still included)....in the end i always come back to this- that my blog is MINE, and it should encompass whatever i want it to!

    p.s. love the hot dogs!

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  3. ok laura. here's my advice....and actually i got it from mick jagger...well...not DIRECTLY from him...but i heard him say it in an interview once.

    write all the time. write every day. even if no one else sees it. have a habit of writing.

    i've tried to make that my goal. i don't always hit it...but i've found that (like anything else) the more i do it...(practice) the better and easier it becomes.

    so...there you go. and no...i don't think the line between work and home need to be hard edged....if we're all doing it right...we're enjoying the whole lot of it...and that's worth expressing....because we all have a desire to be really known. as much as we may protect our hearts and shield our hairy moles...we have a desire to be known by others.

    don't fight it. go with it. be encouraged!

    oh....great hot dogs. i'm going to try that. take care...

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  4. Thanks guys for your encouragement and support and understanding. That's what I think is be best part of writing whatever there is to share, that people do relate and we feel connected and not so alone in our feelings.

    Thank you and I'll continue to write and hopefully I won't go to far out into the abyss!

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  5. Right there with you...millions of ideas and sentences in my head that never have a chance to be written down.
    And the octopus hot dogs..how cool are those? Can't wait to make them for the kids, thanks for sharing!

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  6. Love the octo's, what a cool idea! Maybe they will serve as a way to get my little guy to actually try hot dogs! He's so picky ergh...

    I totally relate to the blog problem, I have the struggle often. It was really bad when I knew I wanted to start a blog but didnt know which direction to go in. I have finally decided like carrie did that it's my blog, it's about my business yes but it's also about me and all my quirks, and all my likes.

    I know that I personally enjoy blogs like that from other people, so I just have to hope my clients will too!

    It's a fine line between wanting to expose totally self expression but not scare people away! =) I think we girls balance it pretty well!

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